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I got a very weird and interesting problem.

How do I figure out if I am dating a person?

The person I suspect to be dating has kissed me several times, we always cuddle when hanging out and hold hands in public. We also text every day, but that might be because I try so hard to always text because I know that he doesn't mind texting with me so I am less afraid to be annoying to him.

I know that I like him and that he is bi so he might be into me too.

But I also know that he would rather have a girlfriend then a boyfriend.

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Oh wow looking through all these posts it makes me really reconsider my relationship. I've barely had tumblr for an hour and it's already opening my eyes

I need to vent.

My brother has feelings for my partner. And my partner has feelings for my brother. I feel sick at my stomach. I don't feel angry towards either of them, but I just feel so upset. It's not even like up for debate whether or not they like each other. They do. I know they do. It's so fucking obvious. I don't even know what to do. I feel like I can't even move forward with my partner knowing they like my brother but I don't wanna hurt them. Hell, they dated for like four hours. My partner asked me to date someone they had gotten a queer platonic crush on, and I said of course, I wanted them to be happy. Later I figured out that it was my brother who they failed to mention was the person they liked. So I talked to my brother about it and they broke up. And when I talked to my partner about it they just kept apologizing and I felt like a terrible person so I just said it was okay and gave in. It's not okay, I'm still upset, I still feel disgusting. I know they still have feelings for each other because they don't just fucking go away. I don't even know what to do because I feel like if I do anything I'm making a scene. I don't wanna do this anymore. I wish this hadn't happened, but it did. It's not my fault. It's not theirs. But somehow I still feel like I want to blame someone.

(Added context. My partner is aroace, I'm A-spec. We're in a qpr, and our qpr could look to the unknowing eye like an 'average' relationship. Also my brother is not brother by blood, but he's my brother in every other aspect.)

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Fuck my life

Is there like asexual but like for like relationships? Like yeah I'll have sex with you but like you want me to go on dates with you and hold your hand? Like no. The fuck.

Possession

(1981)

Unfortunately my boyfriend’s goodnight text had a slight tone (that I very likely imagined) so I now must be sad and slightly bitter for the rest of the night until I fall asleep because there is a tiny chance that he is mad at me. Makes perfect sense

Source: Palimpsest by Dale Dunning

Your Face

It’s difficult (you must know) to deny things so clearly spoken without words

in silence you say everything the curve of your mouth the eyes that do not

quite meet me

and when your mouth is finally open

i can still see the truth in you typeset across your face.

Hi, so, I just want to ask you guys, how do I stop crying about a jerk that was my first kiss and I actually liked (pls help (~~)